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Maybe I can help? I like to think I am pretty good when it comes to relationship stuff.
If you feel as if you are drifting apart but you want to stay together, maybe you need to strengthen your relationship. Just because things are rough doesn't mean you can't fix things and make things better.
Well for starters, if you are having trouble spending enough time together because one of you are forgetful schedule dates and times for you to hang out and be in each other's company. Watch a movie, or go out to eat, or even go on a walk with each other each day.
Also, no keeping things from each other, no matter how small the matter is. If you feel as if you need to talk with each other about something voice it. Bottling feelings or something that recently happened that is troubling you will only hurt yourself and each other. Communication is very important. It either makes or breaks a relationship.
And that is why I said schedule dates and times to hangout. Set specific times that will be the same each day. You can help him remember too. Maybe set reminders on each other's phones or tablets, or computers.
For things to work both of you have to agree and try to make things better. Help each other, and if there is something you think that needs fixing, voice it. And talk it out and find a solution, compromising is also very important.
Happy to help, if you need any more advice feel free to ask. I wouldn't say I am an expert on this stuff, but it is always good to get outside perspectives and opinions on things.
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