No worries, I don't mind explaining.
1. The Chakra Hair Trap works by spreading chakra across detached strands of hair, so it can only be used after the hair has been removed from the body. It's more of the hair being a medium through which to pass chakra, so saying infuse would've been faulty wording on my part.
https://naruto.fandom.com/wiki/Chakra_Hair_Trap_Technique (Chakra Hair Trap Technique)
2. She's shutting down him chakra points the normal way through the usage of the Gentle Fist by injecting her own chakra into his body. She's just not doing this by striking him. Instead, she's just allowing the chakra to pass from her fingers and into his body seeing that he isn't able to resist because of the chakra trap.
Edit:
With regards to sealing chakra point with hits you might want to look into this;
https://naruto.fandom.com/wiki/Tenketsu_Blocking_Strikes (Tenketsu Blocking Strikes)
This link is just the bsiic breakdown of how stopping chakra works, I already know this. And one reoccuring theme seems to be this, "A taijutsu technique that allows the user to disable an opponent by performing a two-fingered thrust at the opponent's tenketsu."
And yes I get how the trap works, but im asking how you infused the hair with chakra. You cant remotely infuse chakra into hair, and said mystical ninja energy flows like a stream, so if you cut off your chakra supply a few inches up your hair, all the hair trimmed away would just be normal hair.